Defining the Relationship – Life Academy

Defining the Relationship

A 10-Step Journey to Build a Foundation for a Powerful & Healthy Marriage!

Many couples rush into marriage without laying the foundation for a strong relationship where both people can be themselves, be known, and build a life together. In this 10-step eCourse, Danny Silk outlines what it means to define the relationship & helps any pre-married couple build a foundation for a healthy and happy life together!

A Note From Your Instructor…

We’ve updated the popular series Defining The Relationship (DTR) for the Loving On Purpose Life Academy. I am excited to pour into the conversation and skill sets of people who are considering the decision of marriage. It has long been a passion of mine to help couples think through the issues they will face blending two lives into one.

In this series, I want you to find courage in two key areas: 1. To look at this relationship with a clarity and ownership of what is really going on in it. 2. To walk into the future knowing the challenges you will face together, or to walk away from the relationship for the same reason.

DTR is an intentional conversation to help strengthen your future. I have no greater joy than helping people who should not be married NOT get married, and helping couples who should be married get married and STAY married.

Please, if you have found someone you think might make an ideal partner for life, join us in the DTR course. I cannot think of a better investment of your time and focus at this point in your life.

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Defining the Relationship is for…

Any couple heading for or flirting with the idea of marriage!
And though it’s designed as a pre-marital process, it’s also a great resource for any couple wanting to cultivate a solid foundation in their relationship, including dating couples or even long-time marrieds.
Last but not least, DTR is for pastors, counselors, or mentors who prepare couples for marriage. You can use it as the centerpiece of your pre-marriage process or a supplement to your pre-marriage toolkit.

Enroll in Defining the Relationship today!

Defining the Relationship

$75 $10

This track includes 10 classes:

  • Powerful People, Powerful Decisions
  • Living on Purpose
  • 7 Pillars of Healthy Relationship
  • The Goal of Connection
  • Love Languages
  • Your “Normal”
  • Communication Dance
  • Resolving Conflict
  • 90/10 Factor
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Are you a church or group?

Are you wanting to take your staff or a small group through this course? We have facilitator and trainer options available here.


Frequently Asked Questions

How to Redeem a Code/Coupon

Go to the desired course and click Enroll now.

This will take you to the login page. Either log in with your already existing account or set up a new account by filling in the below information.

Once logged in then click “Have a coupon?” ***DO NOT CLICK “PURCHASE” YET**** 

Enter gift card code or coupon code in the “Coupon Code” field. Hit “Apply.” If you do not hit apply then the purchase will charge at full price.

After clicking “Apply” you should see the discount applied and then click “Purchase.”


If you need the instructions in a larger format you can view them here. 


What does the community interaction look like?

Access to a private Facebook group with all the other students enrolled in Life Academy.

Once I buy this course do I own it?

Yes, as long as the course is on our website you will have access to watch it as many times you want. We just ask that you not share your account with others.

**The group subscription you will only have access to as long as your subscription is active.

Is there a specific time I have to complete this in?

No you can go at your own pace if you like but we do also offer an option when you buy it to opt in for an 8 week Guided Journey where we will feed you the content weekly so that you are able to really digest the content.